Monthly Archives: December 2017

Will Somebody Tell Me Where It Went?

I’m posting this early because we haven’t had internet for a week, and we only get it for a few hours a day if we get it at all.  They put a new switch in and something didn’t go well.

Seriously!  Where did this year go?  How did this happen?

I know when I was young my mother told me that years would go faster as I got older.  She wasn’t kidding.  It seems like yesterday was just January and I was burying my Jack Russell.  Then it was March and I was burying my chow and my last Clydesdale.  Along the way I’ve been to many funerals and memorials.  It seems like this has been a monthly, put it on your calendar thing.  This can’t be happening to me.  Where did this year go?  I still can’t figure out if we had a summer.  (It’s hard when it’s December 5th and it’s 81 degrees and your still out in the barn at 9:00 p.m. in a tee-shirt.  But other than mowing I don’t remember summer.  The end of this week I will remember it’s December, we are getting a cold front.  It’s going down into the thirties for a week.  “Oh My!”

So my New Years Resolution it to enjoy everyday, and every season.  When we were kids we didn’t put things on the calendar and rush the weeks away, we lived each day to the fullest.  Especially summer vacations.

This year let’s not make resolutions that we won’t keep.  Let’s be realistic and only make resolutions we will not only keep, but will totally enjoy.  Live each day like your horse will.

Have a happy, healthy, safe, New Year!

 

Merry Christmas To All

Well the shopping should be done, but probably isn’t.  All the decorations are up, and it’s almost “Show Time.”  It’s time to get excited because “Santa Claus is coming to town.”

No matter how old you get, you still get the butterflies in your stomach when you think of that.  Unless you have 17 grandchildren, have been shopping and wrapping for weeks, and you are so done with Toy’s R Us, you can’t stand it.  I was there 20 years ago.  To this day I still don’t wrap anything anymore.  Everything goes in gift bags.  The grandchildren are grown and just prefer money.  Shopping is so much easier now.  But I do miss Christmas morning at our house.  If you could find the floor under all that ripped up wrapping paper.  It always looked like Toy’s R Us threw up in my living room.  But their happy, smiling faces made it all worth while, and Bob and I got to play with the toys again.  Now the most exciting thing, beside clothes, are the dog treats.  What is wrong with this picture?

Please enjoy your Christmas, especially if there are small children involved.  They don’t stay small for long.

“Merry Christmas to all, and to all a good night!”

He’s Making A List and Checking It Twice

It’s almost here!  When I was a child I’d dream that Santa would bring me a horse.  Oh I got many horses over my childhood years, all toys, but I did get to go riding and have lessons.  Now I get many horses over the years, and they are not that easy to store.  Somehow I can’t keep a new one out of Bob’s sight very long. I’ve been working on him lately, but it’s not going good.  I’ve turned this horse down five times, but he keeps coming back.  I figure God is trying to tell me something.  Wish he would tell Bob. I really don’t want to take on another expense, but he just won’t go away. So what’s on your list this year?  Clothes, tack, another horse?  This really is a disease.  Instead of AA do they have HA? Oh I used to go through all the catalogs and just pick out stuff I would love to have for my horse.  Now I go through and pick out what they must have.  Cosequin, quilts and leg wraps, hoof dressing, Coggins Test, EWT.  It’s like when you finally crossed that border and toys were no longer an option, you would get clothes.  I hated when that happened, and I’m not to crazy about it now either. I still decorate their stalls and the barn.  I still put bells and holly on their halters, but the magic of youth is gone.  “Once you pass its borders, you can never return again.” Bing Crosby can still be heard singing “I’m Dreaming Of A White Christmas”, so am I, but that’s not likely here in Central Florida, but that’s why I live here.  I spoke with my girlfriend the other day in New Jersey and it was 20 degrees with a sheet of ice covering everything.  That’s not a dream, that’s a nightmare. So we are getting down to the wire.  Make sure your letter to Santa is ready to go.  Look through all those catalogs and make your list, check it twice, but mainly just enjoy what you have and dream about what you hope to get. “May Your Days Be Merry and Bright, and May All Your Christmas’ Be White.”  Miss you Bing.

The Loss Of A Mentor

For the more mature of my readers, remember when you were a kid and all those wonderful Westerns were on TV?  The Lone Ranger, Roy Rogers, Gene Autry.  Or even the horse programs like Fury, My Friend Flicka, Mr. Ed.  I’d would watch any program that had a horse in it, like Wagon Train, Bonanza, Gunsmoke, you get the picture.  All these cowboys had fabulous horses.  John Wayne had the same two horses that he used in most of his movies.  His career was longer than their life span, I guess.  Other than a movie here and there, horses are hard to be found on TV.

As we move through life, we lose people.  As we mature, we lose them faster and closer together.

I’ve had some wonderful mentors in my years of horses.  The “old timers” had a grasp on horses that the “new comers” will never have.  With some, these horses were part of their lively hoods.  My first husbands grandfather had work horses.  He would use them to haul ice from the lakes to be delivered to customers for their refrigerators.  Horses weren’t pets in those days.  They were necessities to survive, and make a living.  Now I’m not talking about this happening in the country in different states, although it did, he had his business in Staten Island, New York.  Yup, right there in one of the five boroughs of New York City.  What a different life it was back then.  But he had wonderful “homemade” treatments for all that ailed the horses.  He did things the “old-fashioned” way, and they worked.  He also died and took all that great information with him.  He wouldn’t let on to any of his potions.

Well a couple of weeks ago I lost another mentor, who did share his knowledge.  Michael J. Torpey, Master of Hidden Hollow Hounds.  This man was a hoot!  And boy could he dance.  Mostly I learned so much from him about Fox Hunting.

When I first joined HHH it was a small, unrecognized, pack with very little territory, but did we have great runs over beautiful country.  Then we acquired more land to use and became a recognized hunt.   My friend Vincent, who was a Joint Master, wanted us to be recognized, Mike liked it just the way it was.  He was very strict on what was proper and what wasn’t.  Only small pearl earrings were allowed.  No other jewelry.  Hair nets were a must, no compromise there.  Everything was done “old school.”  They weren’t the best bred pack, but they could do their job.  I loved watching them run a fox across a freshly plowed field, or gallop after them through a field of pumpkins after Halloween.  Pumpkins do crush under your horses feet.  At first I was scared that my horse would hit one and it would roll, and therefore we would too, but that never happened.

He taught us all so much, not only about hunting, but a lot about training our horses for the job.  We’d have clinics on Saturday in the off-season that would prepare us for anything we’d encounter on the hunt field.  Drop jumps, coffin jumps; I loved watching people’s faces the first time they would try one of those.  Basically it would be what you see on cross-country courses now.

He gave me and Nancy the opportunity to become Whipper-Ins, and we had a great time doing it.  We would practice and show in Hunt Team competition at shows along with our Huntsman Lew.

Mike was the Master and Hunstman until it got cold, and the doctors didn’t want him out below 40 degrees because of his heart.  Lew would take over as Huntsman then.  When Lew was out-of-town, I would hunt the hounds.  Now there was an experience and a half.  It looks so easy until you have to do it.  Now the hounds only knew me as the person who called them off a scent, so why would they listen to me when I was the Hunstman?  They wouldn’t follow my horse, they were looking for Mike and his white horse.  So Mike put me on his horse until they got used to my voice.  When they acknowledged me, I was able to use my own horse.  To this day when I call in my own hounds and Jack Russell, I still use the same words and tones as I did back then.  He gave me opportunities that served me well through my years of hunting with different packs, in other states.

He was a tough old dude who didn’t have patience for stupid.  He would talk about other Masters whose names were well-known in the Hunting industry and tell me they were a bunch of “Horses Hind Ends (my choice of words, not his.”)  I would smile and think he just was very set in his ways and didn’t think much of others.  Well thirty years have passed since then and I have ridden under other Masters who are well-known, and guess what?  Many were not, but many were.  He was right.  I told Mike that several years ago, and he was not even a little surprised.

He lived to be 97 and has taught many people to ride and hunt.  He would be at every show in the area, just sitting, just watching.  Occasionally he would just sit there and shake his head.  He was wise in the sense he didn’t volunteer his knowledge, unless he was being paid.  That is something I have a hard time doing.  I’m more in trying to help the horse, so if I can pass something on to a rider or owner, I just do it.  I’ll keep working on that one Mike.

He was a great horseman and mentor.  Mike, you will forever be in my mind and on my heart.  Someone should blow “Gone Away.”  It won’t be me because I never really mastered the horn.  I can get by, but he deserves better than that.

Thank you Mike for all you taught me, and the good times we all had.