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???Hurricane???

I didn’t get to post this morning, so now I’m going to go with something different.

When they start talking about a Hurricane it’s like the boy who cried wolf. Just like the news media, they get all excited, run around like a chicken with their heads cut off, and then the darn thing goes someplace else. BUT there is always the chance that this time it will come here.

Now I remember when Charlie was set to hit Tampa Bay. People threw their horses in their trailers and went to Orlando and Georgia, and where did the Hurricane end up going? Orlando and Georgia. We stayed put, but that time I left the horses out. The problem with loading your horses to get out of Florida is that everyone else has the same idea, with or without horse trailers. There are only two major highways out, I 95 and I 75. These very quickly become long parking lots. Horses are stuck in traffic in sweat boxes, unless you are blessed to have air conditioning for your horses. If the trailers aren’t moving, neither is the air inside. Then there’s the added thought of we’re out of gas and so are all the gas stations. Personally I’d rather ride out the storm at home than be stuck on the highway with horses in the trailer.

So this morning, as I’m doing my chores, one of my boarders text me and asked if I need help getting ready. For a split second I had to think, ready for what? Then it registered that the 11:00 a.m. update had come out. So right now it looks like it’s a possibility. I thanked her and told her we were under control.

The biggest thing is to remember what you did last time to prepare. First of all leaving town is not an option. I’m not doing that to my horses. If you don’t know anyone in one of the other states, you get there and what do you do? There is an option to go to the State Fair Grounds, but people make reservations in advance.

So here we stay. I’m very comfortable that we will fair well. We have in past years. Barn is well built, I just got grain, have hay, generator for the well, it’s just remembering what has to be secured.

The one boarder that was here this morning asked if the horses stay inside or out. She said there are various opinions about that. Well you have to take a lot of things into consideration. How strong is your barn? Is it going to collapse on top of your horses? How safe is your pasture. What are the chances that debris will fly in from the neighbors. Are your pastures large enough that the horses can run out of the way of UFO’s? Will your fences become UFO’s? Will your barn or other outbuildings become UFO’s? Your house, the dog house, your jumps, all can become flying debris. How strong are the trees in your pastures. These oaks in Florida fall for no good reason, so when you have a good reason are they going to stand?

I have dog tags that attach to the horses halters and tails. I guess I should pull them out, but chances are 1. The hurricane will change course, and 2. The horses will remain in the barn. I know this barn, it will stand. I have first aid supplies for any injuries and medications for everything else. Chances are that getting a vet here will not be an option. If trees come down on the road, they just are not getting through.

This, of course, is not just a Florida problem. This storm, or others, can run up the East Coast. I’d rather deal with something I know may hit us as opposed to a Tornado that just shouts “Surprise!” as it takes everything in it’s path. I don’t even want to think about what people went through this year with the fires in California, or floods.

So for now, it’s a wait and see. We’ll start securing on Friday, until then it’s business as usual. No thought of building an Ark, we’re high. The rest of Florida would have to be submerged for us to have water front property. If that happens, would the name Florida be changed to Atlantis?

So You Thought You’d Heard It All

There is always more to learn about horses. You think you’ve seen it all – heard it all – done it all…… and then, Wham!!! there’s something new.

Of course there are always new findings, new products, new ways of doing the same old things, but sometimes you just hear of things that you’ve never heard of before.

Between my neighbor and I we’ve covered too many problems. We check in with each other to see if either of us have come up against any particular thing. If the answer is no, we spread the knowledge between us so we’re covered the next time.

I’ve had laser done on horses before, I could only assume it worked. I had it done on me last week and you know what? It really did work. Who would have known. Went through the same thing with acupuncture. I used it on the horses, but not until it really worked for me did I believe it. Now chiropractic I had first.

Millions of horses are flown all over the world, in airplanes of course, all the time. I hate to fly, but I never gave it much thought when it came to horses. I’ve seen how it’s done. Don’t like it much, but it works. Do they get peanuts and a complimentary drink? But lately I’ve encountered many horses that have been flown over and I can’t believe the amount of them that have physical problems from the flight. When speaking with an equine chiropractor, I can’t believe the percentages that have injuries (unseen) from the journey.

Now lets just look at the facts. If you are purchasing a horse in Europe and flying it over to the United States I’m sure they are not flying Economy. You’ve paid a great deal of money for this whole adventure. Why are so many horses injured in the process? Why aren’t people more aware of the injuries these poor animals are left with? Why isn’t something more being done to protect their safety?

The next thing I’ve come up against lately is head/neck trauma in horses.

Now I know my old TB was not right in the brain, and Bob’s Appendix would get weird. We always said that when God was passing out brains, Toy thought he said trains, and Toy said I’m a horse and don’t need trains. It was a standing joke, but now I’m thinking maybe there is more to it. We’d just say he was seeing “Red Rats” let it go. He’d lose focus, start violently backing up, his eyes kind of go blank, he’d slip into the abyss, and we’d wait for him to return. He would back into trees, barbed wire, walls, other horses, whatever was behind him. You could beat him on the butt, but nothing would get his focus back. I had a TB mare that would just freeze, lock up, you’d wait it out and then she would just blow up, and it wasn’t pretty when she would land on a horse in front of her. When these episodes were done, you had a normal??? horse again. It was just something you learned to ride out. It was like her brain went on overload and shut down. Toy’s was more like a panic attack. My first TB I just chalked up to temper tantrums.

But now I’m finding different explanations. More scientific explanations.

My one friends has a horse, and she would say, his brain has checked out. Okay, I hear you, I’ve been there, but she wasn’t just going to work around it. She found people who believed her and offered real explanations. Vertebrates that are out of alignment either pinching nerves or blocking blood to the brain. She’s going to have a specialist look at him and see if there is anyway of correcting the problem. She would always tell me that he just wasn’t there (mentally). I guess she was right.

It’s funny. Years ago we figured there was really something wrong with these horses, but we didn’t know any better. We didn’t know we could look further into the situation. That perhaps something really was wrong that could have been corrected, but then 20 – 40 years ago, I don’t believe there were people out there that could have helped them. Medical and psychological advances in equine medicine have come so far, and nothing is out of bounds anymore. The old saying of “they’re just horses” doesn’t hold water anymore. Owners want answers and are willing to pay for it, and vets are more open to all this weird stuff. People all over the world are investigating all the strange issues that horses and horse people are facing.

I wish I knew then what I know now. I could have helped so many of the horses I loved. I gave them good retirements, but I could have given them many more years of wonderful rides. But from here we go forward.

This Will Touch Your Heart

Okay, it’s one of those things I read, and it touched my heart. Perhaps it will touch yours too. With the way my brain works lately, I may have already shared it with you. Humor me.

“Sit with animals Quietly and they will show you their Hearts…..Sit with them Kindly, and they will help you locate Yours.” Ramblings of the Claury.

It is so true. We gain so much peace from our animals, but only if we allow ourselves the quiet time to be with them.

We have so much to do that we just rush through our chores. Off to work, off to school, off to somewhere. But as the old saying goes “We need to stop and smell the roses.” We need to take time to just be still with our horses. We need quiet times in our lives to keep our sanity.

I know I’ve spoken about the times, on a cold winters night, that I would just sit in a 20 degree barn and listen to the horses munching their hay. My friend said that to me several weeks ago. Of course it being Florida it wasn’t on a cold winters night, it was probably on a warm summers night. But the point was that it is so relaxing just listening to them munch hay. Why? I have no clue, but horse people all know it to be true.

The quietness is peaceful, but the callings can be just as enjoyable, when your horse sees you and calls to you. Or perhaps just nickers to you. There are seven in the barn now and I know each one of their voices. I knew each one of my horses voices over all the 57 years. Some are base, some baritone, some tenors, some altos, and a few sopranos (mostly ponies). All pleasing to the ears when it’s aimed at your attention.

They are like your children. Have you been with a parent who has more than one child? When one of their children cries, they know which one it is. Your ears are tuned

How about with your dogs? I know what each growl, whimper, or whine means.

They are in our hearts and in our souls. Never be mistaken about this.

Twilight Zone Or What?

(Sometimes you just don’t know what day it is.)

Didn’t like that program much when I was young. Just wasn’t my cup of tea.

Two weeks ago was was a lead-in for this week. Now I don’t expect you to believe it, because I’m still having difficulty with it, but I’ll throw it out to you for entertainment, more or less.

The owner of the TB has a very special bond with that horse. I’ve had special bonds with mine, but this one is different. Can’t really explain it. She knows what he is thinking and communicating. I mean I knew what Desert was going to do at any given moment, and he knew what I wanted before I asked, but this is different. I’ve gotten strange feelings from this horse. Like he was smarter and more knowledgeable, just couldn’t put it into human words. Not a good explanation, but like I said, can’t explain any of this.

So the last couple of days I’ve been bringing them in the barn because of afternoon storms. When it’s time to go out I would get the old dude and walk him to the next stall to get the TB. Old dude hasn’t wanted to come out onto the concrete because he’s had sore feet from all the wet. I usually treat them for a few days and they are fine, but my back has been out and bending was not an option. So he would get onto the concrete, walk the couple of steps to the TB’s stall and stop. I’d get the TB out and he’d start walking for the back door which is only about eight feet from his stall door. TB would be walking and the old dude has planted his feet and was not going anywhere. I’ve got one horse ahead, one horse planted and me in the middle being stretched like Gumbie. So the TB stops and waits while I play tug-of-war. Well two nights ago the TB stopped and looked back like “what’s the deal?” So talking to him like he understood me I said “his feet hurt and he doesn’t want to move. Do something, talk to him.” Well the TB turns around and walks back, licks the old dudes neck by his mane, then nudges him and he (old dude) walks out beside us. Okay that was weird, but I’ll take it because now I can get on with turning everyone out and feeding.

Okay, comes the next night and we’re back to the same situation. This time I didn’t say anything. TB stops, turns around, comes back to the old dude, (now remember I didn’t say anything) nudges him behind the elbow three times. No movement on the old dudes part. TB then grabs the cheek piece of the halter and drags him out the back door by the halter. I started laughing and just walked along with them. As soon as they were out the back door the TB let go and we proceeded to the pasture.

Of course I thanked him for his help, but was in total shock as to what I had just witnessed. I’m still in shock. Today my back was better and I treated the feet, but I can’t wait to see what tonight brings. Once again I’m not giving any direction, just being a bystander in this whole scene.

Well I didn’t play that game the next night. When I took the old dude out of the stall I kept him walking out the door. I did that for two nights in a row. Left him outside the door on the grass, went back in and got the TB. That worked well for two nights. The third night I put the old dude on the cross tie to do his feet (it’s right by the TB’s door). When I was done I put the halter on the TB, unclipped the old dude and went to walk out. (Now let me say that I didn’t clip the throat latch on the halter because I was just turning them out, and taking the halter off. I also know that the old dude isn’t going to do anything stupid. So once again, without me saying anything, the TB turns around and comes back for his friend, who isn’t moving. Without the throat latch being closed the cheek piece was closer to the eye, so the TB grabs the back of the nose band and starts to pull. Old dude said “I’m not moving.” After several tries the TB lets go and then proceeds to take the skin on the old dudes jowl between his teeth and gently pulls him. He was so delicate on how he did this I was amazed. At this point I just yelled at the both of them and out the door we went. Old dude got the message.

You can believe it or not. I still don’t.

Another Way Of Seeing Things

Some people take lessons continually, some never have. Some people watch all the trainers on TV and Video, some never have. Some people stay with one trainer for years, and some change trainers regularly. What’s the correct thing to do? It’s up to the individual and their circumstances.

Someone I knew used to say that boarding horses and teaching is like a revolving door – they come and they go. At first I used to take it personally, now I’ve moved beyond that. There is a time and purpose for each season. Perhaps the next person will explain something differently that they my grasp.

The interesting thing about being a teacher/trainer is that when someone comes to you, you never know what they actually know or have done in the past. So where do I start? From the beginning.

Now this woman has been riding since she was very young, in Germany. Now I’ve known many instructors from Germany, and they are extremely strong and strict. I’ve watched her ride as she’s trying to get her horse back into work after a lay-up, and I’ve seen things I would like to see her do differently. Now there are many styles of riding, but what I’ve seen I categorize as not as safe as I would like it, or just simple adjustments to making her riding more efficient.

Well she came to me a couple of weeks ago and spoke about wanting to take lessons. She was a little shaken up when her horse displayed a very enthusiastic approach to what she was asking. Hitting the ground, when you’re pushing 60, gives you a feeling that you might need help.

It’s funny, when we are young, we hit the ground, got back on and hurt for a few days. When you hit the ground around the age of 60 you rethink your priorities. The “I can’t afford to get hurt” thing goes off like a neon sign in your head. “If I get hurt who will take care of all my responsibilities?” “What will happen with my job or my family?” That puts fear in our minds, and we all know what fear can do when we are riding horses.

So when she came to me I gave her my thoughts on the lesson plan. I told her that we were going to start from scratch. I explained that I know she knows how to ride, but that I was going to go over things she may have already heard or practiced in the past. I also told her that there might be holes in her training and we will work through the known and she might find things that were never fully explained or things that might have been rushed over. She said that it would be fine.

Well her fears are gone, her horses is quiet and relaxed and she’s loving her lessons. After each lesson she tells me that she has learned something new and different each time. I always ask her if there is something she would like me to explain in further detail and she always tells me no that the instructions were perfectly clear and easy to understand.

Perhaps it’s because I’ve taught children for so many years that I’ve perfected my explanations into a simple form. Or perhaps it’s because no one ever explained why things were done that way. Most instructors will just say “do it this way,” without giving the mechanics of why.

We didn’t do “around the world” or “touch ears, tail, left toe, right toe,” but I did have her close her eyes and feel which leg was moving forward at any given time. She was also having trouble detecting her correct diagonal. She had always watched the outside leg, I simple told her to try and watch the inside leg and yup it happened. Most people instruct on the outside, I was taught on the inside. I’m not a rocket scientist, but there is a more sweeping motion with the inside than the outside that she could see with a quick glance. We are working on the feeling of the movement, but right now, after all these years, she’s excited about finally getting things right.

Sometimes it’s because instructors fly through their explanations, sometimes they forget to mention things, but sometimes it’s a matter of saying the same thing in a different way. What you don’t get from one instructor you may get with the next. You get that A Ha! moment.

What I’ve found with most people, they don’t ask questions. They don’t want to feel stupid so they just keep moving on. If you don’t fully understand something Stop! and ask for a better explanation. You won’t look stupid, you’ll look interested in learning.

Remember, any holes that are left in your training will come back to bite you later. When you are building a house you can’t leave out a block here and a plank there, it will fall. Come to think of it, so will you.

Friends 21203

Remember the TV program “Friends 90210?” Well this is Friends 21203. Never watched the show the first time around, but the name stuck with me.

How many of you, when you were young, would go places and instantly make new friends. Whether it be at the park, beach, playground, or neighborhood, wherever there were other children, you made friends. Children would run up to parents and say “this is my new best friend.” It didn’t matter if they only played with them for a short time, or that they would never see them again, it was their new best friend. Now we used the term BFF.

We all know that horses are a herd animal and love the social end of being together as much as the protection of the herd. However, within that herd there are always best friends.

Separating two horses that are BFF can be tramitising. It doesn’t matter if the friend moves to another barn or pasture, or if the separation is caused by death. Their reactions can be simple or off the wall. Some horses go into deep mourning for long periods of time, some will accept it and try to move on, just a little depressed.

Friends come in all shapes sizes, and species. Age doesn’t matter either.

I have a 9 yr. old Thoroughbred whose best friend is a 27 yr. old Quarter Horse. To watch them play (hard) makes me a nervous wreck. The TB will rear and buck and annoy the old dude. The old dude makes faces at him when the TB is not looking, and when he gets too annoying will just reach out and bite him. The old dude just goes right back at him, but they truly love each other. The TB will protect the old dude from anything.

The QH will only do one lap to the TB’s 3 or 4 around the pasture, then he will just stand and watch until the TB is done being silly. When they are in their stalls, the TB puts his head over the divider and watches the old dude until they both go back out.

Of course meal times are a different story. Then it’s every horse for himself. The old horse will share. The TB is not good in that department.

I watch them interact, and sometimes I wonder what’s going on in their minds and conversations. They are both very smart horses. The lines of communication are always open. They are like two bothers who fight, but would do whatever was necessary to protect the other.

We all wish we had friends like this. There is more to this story, but I’ll save that for next week. It’s quite amazing and I still can’t believe it myself.

Unfair Perceptions

The title and the next paragraph come from my daily devotional written by Cara Whitney “Unbridled Faith.” For some reason it hit me that I should write about it.

It reads – “Giving your trust to a horse after it has hurt you can be a hard obstacle to overcome. Even after a “naughty” horse has spent a good thirty days with a trainer, you are still left to wonder if he has changed his ways. The horse’s behavior may have changed, but how we see him is still the same.”

Well this leads me to something I wrote about probably several years ago. “Fear is the single most dangerous and destructive force in a relationship with a horse. Eradicate fear and you begin to develop trust.” Well now isn’t that easier said than done.

As I’ve mentioned, the new horse came with a laundry list of cautions. My immediate reaction was, this horse is going to kill me. One step at a time and I found that most everything was over played, but I’m thankful that I was given a heads-up, and more thankful that I was wise enough to take one step at a time and give him the benefit of the doubt.

So here you have a horse that hurt you. Fear is a normal instinct to keep us from getting hurt again. You have a catch 22 situation here. Horses, as we know, know us better than we know ourselves. We can’t walk up to a horse and lie to them. Telling them “I am not afraid” will not work. If you have fear they will do one of two things; take advantage of you, or be fearful themselves.

I could write for weeks about how to overcome fear, but the best way I have found is to just keep chipping away at it. Start at square one with your relationship with your horse and when you are both comfortable move to square two. The more you do something, the more comfortable you will become.

Once you build up the trust between the two of you, everything will fall into place. You may need a professional to help you work through your fears. We’ve all had them at some point in our lives. Maybe with your horse or maybe with something else. Repetition is the only way to get beyond it.

I was in a car accident almost 50 years ago. I was stopped at a red light and a DUI slammed into me. I haven’t stopped driving or given up stopping at red lights, but I do watch my rear view mirror to make sure if someone is not going to stop, that maybe I should just move out of the way.

Your horse and riding means too much to you to let fear determine your life. Take back control and move forward. Don’t totally throw caution to the wind. If the thought presents itself, ask yourself if this is something you need to work through or is your unconscious mind trying to warn you to rethink things that may be harmful to you.

Keep an open mind, but use the mind you were given.

Let Me Help!

Sometimes horses are just too smart. They figure out what you are going to do, and try to help you get it done. We think it’s cute, but it can be very dangerous.

My one boarders horse is a quick thinker. He knows the routine and is right there with the answer. “I can do this!”

It’s wonderful when they see you coming with the hoof pick and pick their foot up for you, before you ask. It’s not such a good idea when they try to help you remove their bridle or halter. This particular horse, the minute you put your hand on the crown piece will rip his head out of the halter. If your not careful, your fingers go with it. I’ve been refusing to remove it until he stands quietly and allows me to do it. Same thing with the fly mask, and I’ve seen him try it with the bridle. This presents the problem of the bit hitting him in the teeth. You always have the chance of getting slammed in the face, depending on what you are trying to get accomplished.

When I remove their blankets, over their heads, they want to help too. They fly backwards. If they get caught in anything, you have a blanket chasing a horse all over the pasture or stall. They shred them very nicely. Make them stand quietly. Their bucket, with grain in it, is a good incentive.

My favorite line is “Just Let Me Do It And We’ll Get Done A Lot Quicker!” They just don’t believe me, most times.

I love when they just drop their heads and slide their noses into the blanket when you are putting it on, and just drop their heads and let it slide down their necks to remove it.

Then, which I’ve mentioned before, I have Zoey who wants to help you open the gate, and close it. Usually on another horse, dog, or person. Her “I know how to do this” attitude is cute, sometimes helpful, and sometimes not.

They have to remember that you are in charge of the decisions as to when and how things are going to be done, and wait for you to ask for their assistance. Helping is cute until you end up in the hospital with broken fingers with, as my friend calls them, fish hooks sticking out of the sides. She said she learned her lesson, but at what price? No barn time for over a month because they were afraid of infection into the bones.

Remember, you are the alfa mare. They always give to the alfa mare. Make them chill and wait for you to do things, or give them the signal. As you get older, all the injuries that were caused to our fingers, and didn’t notice, come back to haunt us big time. You get a combination of swelling, arthritis, and fingers that lock and you have to open them with your other hand. I pull a weed, unlock my fingers, pull another weed, unlock my fingers, ……… Yes according to by acupuncturist it’s caused by closing our fingers hard on our rains to stop all those horses that had no mouths when we were kids, or have them tight on a lunge line as the horse is dragging us around, but either way, they don’t work so well anymore. At the time it was happening, we didn’t think anything of it, but we do now in our 70’s. I can still type and play the piano because they like to be bent, it’s straightening them out that is the problem.

Always remember, you are in charge, crooked fingers and all.

“And The Rockets Red Glare”

Happy 4th of July everyone! But it may not be happy for all our animals. Some of them just can’t handle it.

Now let’s think about all the “war horses”. They weren’t bothered by artillery fire. People shoot guns off the backs of horses now and in days past. It’s all a matter of how you condition your horses. Now dogs on the other hand, are not always interested in working through this particular problem.

So here we face another 4th of July. Are you prepared, and do you know how your horse will take to it?

Now the horses that have been here for a year or more are fine with it. I have never had a horse on the property that wasn’t okay with the pretty sights and loud sounds. It might have something to do with Florida and all the intense lightening strikes we have, or maybe it’s something else. I like to feed early and be home for the 4th of July evenings, just in case. My horses are all turned out in their pastures. They actually like to watch the fireworks. They run down to the pond to get a better view. But this year I have two new horses who I don’t know. I’ve put calls out to their owners to see if they have any idea of what reaction to expect. One is a hunt horse and probably has heard gun fire before. The one from Germany, I’m not really sure. The owner said he was put in the barn and seemed to do fine. He’s the curious sort and would probably like to watch, but he also uses any excuse to run around.

So the question is do you put them in or leave them out? I really believe they prefer being out. They can see what’s making the noise and if they want to get away from it they can go to the other end of the pasture. I worry that they will feel trapped in their stalls. They can’t see what’s going on, but they hear the noise. They are confined and can’t run away. Now if you have a horse that will panic, running away might not be a good idea, especially if they’ll run through a fence.

So it’s really up to you and your horse. You know him/her better than anyone. If you have a small paddock that they stay in, there is no place to run to.

It’s a judgement call, and you are the judge. Have a safe happy 4th. You might also consider conditioning your horse through the year to prepare him for the 4th of July next year.

Blind Mans Bluff

It was fun as a kid, but it’s not so great now.

As we age, we don’t see like we used to. It’s hard at first to accept this. For the longest time I couldn’t figure out why I couldn’t read the menu in Taco Bell. I kept blaming the curved signs for me not being able to read them. Then one day I walked in with my driving glasses on, and wow! it wasn’t the sign. When I went to get my eyes checked a few years before, the doctor asked if I could see while I was driving. I said sure, I can see just fine. He asked how I knew I was seeing fine. Good question.

So when I notice horses snorting at things that never bothered them before, the question came up, can they see?

Usually when they get cataracts, changing from the light to the dark or dark to the light bothers them. They come into the light and start blinking.

With the new horse that came in a couple of weeks ago, the owner warned me that he didn’t see well. He’s only 14, so I did have my doubts. She told me that he wouldn’t go into a dark stall. Well she was right. You have to put the light on, or once he trusts you, he will follow you in, but he will not enter it by himself. He will also not enter the lean to in the dark. He cannot find his way through the gate. Once he’s in there and has to come out, it scares him and he will bolt and hit his hips on the 6 x 6 on the way out.

Are you paying attention to your horses eye sight? It’s funny. At the eye specialist I bring my dog to, he has an eye chart for dogs. Instead of letters, it has a dog house, a hydrant, a cat, dog bone, ball, and various things that dogs love. Of course they don’t read it, but it is cute.

As far as horses go, I guess it could have a carrot, apple, bucket of grain, or whatever you could imagine. The thing is, they can’t use it either. So it’s up to us to be aware of when their eye sight starts to fail. You can’t beat them for being afraid of something they can’t identify. They can’t help it. You have to ask yourself – is he afraid, is he yanking my chain, or is his sight failing?

Please be aware and understanding of their needs because of failing eye sight. You may be there someday too. Of course we have the option of glasses, they don’t.