Well I’ve looked over the posts that I have lined up to present to you, and none of them fit my mood or this day.
Some of them are very intense, I don’t feel intense.
It’s a New Year, and a new start. We can make resolutions that we won’t keep. We can start projects that we won’t finish. But we can try.
We can try to make more time for our horses, and for ourselves. We can make more time to spend with the people who mean the most to us.
I’ve intended to go see my friend who was in a hospital and rehab center, but I’ve been sick myself. (I hate when people share their germs, and I refuse to do it.) She fell off her horse a million times when we were hunting, but a step-ladder did her in. Now today I found out that she passed away. In a way I’m glad for her, because she was paralyzed and would never be able to enjoy the life she was used to living. But in another way I’m sad, because she was planning on getting involved with handicapped riding. She was not going to let this accident slow her down, and she was going to make this accident benefit others.
At this point I need to share a funny story about Pat, she was quite a character. We were having our hunt tea after a hunt one evening. They are usually a breakfast or dinner but we always refer to them as a tea. Some people would put their horses in their trailers and some would leave them tied to the side of their trailers while they ate. Well Pat had hers tied to the passenger side of the trailer so she could keep an eye on her. When she left she walked up on the driver’s side, got in, and started driving slowly down the dirt road. Elly, her horse, started walking at first along with the trailer. We all started yelling and running after the trailer. Then Elly started trotting to keep up. We started running faster and yelling louder. Pat finally stopped to see what all the fuss was about and we all laughed at the situation. I don’t think Elly was that amused, but it is a nice memory of Pat and all the fun we had. She wasn’t the only one who ever did this, but it was the funniest.
So even if you are a little hung over today, remember that life is way to short to put things off. Enjoy your horse, your friends, and your family every chance you get. Tomorrow isn’t guaranteed to anyone.
I know Pat is in heaven totally happy with all her friends, and the animals that went on before her. I can hear the hunt horn blowing “Gone Away”, but we’re still here, let’s make the most of 2015.
Brought tears to my eyes. Another well written and poignant message,Di.
Happy New Year to my friend